2015-03-14 01:31 am
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IP Logging - wiping logged IPs

Dear All

In the far past of this meme, IP logging was on - it has since been turned off - but there are still these IP addresses from the earlier comments, a lot of them, is there a way I could strip that info away while keeping the comment other than doing it manually which is like impossible?
2011-12-22 10:01 am
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Off Topic; So how about The Great Fandom Exodus II huh?

Gekked from http://news.livejournal.com/140511.html?thread=98187743#t98187743

Raw data from Dreamwidth:
newbyday 2011-12-19 1668
newbyday 2011-12-20 2518
newbyday 2011-12-21 21903



Well, at least this is better than when the GreatestJournal just suddenly disappeared and ate the OMG Naruto OP, we've had repeated warnings in the form of dick moves by increments here.

I wonder if they are doing this under the foolishly backward assumption that the 4chan/fandom side of the Internet is a less valuable advertisement base than Facebook? Facebook is a goldmine of demographics information - which advertisers use to shape their marketing strategies...um, but the thing about the alias-alias fandom side of the Internet is this - you don't NEED to know who we are or where we went to school, we are here and we are specifically here to hobby up on our specific interests. Stop trying to decode our private texts when we are already telling you what we want! DVDs/books/posters of the fandoms we are interested in, movie trailers featuring actresses/actors of the cast of the series we like, romantic gay porn ...heck, considering how much some fans like emulating the habits of their favourite characters, ads of the stores where they got their clothes? I've been dying to know where Willow Rosenberg and Spencer Reid get their adorable sweaters.
2011-12-21 03:38 pm
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CM Kink Meme VII - now on DreamWidth

Criminal Kink Meme VII

...our sandbox is now at Dreamwidth, because Subject Headings Subject Headings! Signing up for a DW account took me less than a minute, they just ask for a birthdate and email, you don't even need to give them a name.

7A - Everything Goes
from Non-Violent Safe Sane Consensual to Dangerous Insane Nonconsenual.

For members of our community who are trauma survivors and find violence and/or consent issues triggering, please consider the option of this: 7B - Safe Space

Tracking: You don't need a dreamwidth account to track this meme, because they support Open ID, go to that page, put in your livejournal address, and when it takes you back to LJ confirm, then you can have comments sent to your email inbox! (Protip: Create a separate folder and AutoSort all new meme comments into that folder, I've been sending all LJ anon comments to a kink folder...DreamWidth comments are titled DreamWidth comments though.)
2011-12-17 12:33 am
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CM_Kink is back / Friending vs Tracking

Prompt again!

...Kink Meme 6 is close, and Kink Meme 5 is reopened, I don't think we are running out of space yet.

A reminder: you don't have to do a fill for every prompt you make, but try, look through the prompts, you might be inspired! A fill doesn't have to be an epic, a paragraph can be enough to to satisfy a kink sometimes. Look through the old prompts 1-6. Thank you.



Note to the ppl friending this meme:
1. Remember, this is classed as a journal, not a community. (when you friend a journal, you give the journal holder permission to see your flock entries, when you friend a comm, you only watch the comm and the mods of the comm don't have any access)
2. Tracking is what you can do if want to keep track of when this journal makes a new post, click the tracking button and chose to be notify every time this journal makes a new post.
2011-12-11 09:42 pm
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platonic prompts contest

There is a community that host generally general contests where prompts are posted to the theme of the week.

The way they run it is different, it's best that you read their page on it least I describe it wrong:

http://cmpromptmeme.livejournal.com/497.html





Notice to the girl I went birding with on Sunday: I'm glad that you had as good a time as I did, however, I think you sent the wrong sort of people to my door when you posted my number in the ladies' bathroom under 'For A Good Time, Call ########'
2011-12-08 02:48 pm
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IP Logging Free Post LINK

http://www.livejournal.com/support/faqbrowse.bml?faqid=66

In this journal, Anonymous IP Logging is On: This means that each anon who post is distinguished from another, this discourage trolls and sockpuppets, and authorship disputes (if you see someone reposting your anon fills as their own, contact me).

Signed In Posts Are Not Logged. - I thought it was a nice compromise, but I think I made a mistake. The problem is when Anon Posts are reposted elsewhere (with name) or when it ends with a link to the author's journal: this was what was often done in some other kink memes, I like it, this was how I rolled because: No usernames, people read and fill prompts for the prompts themselves, but then when they are done reading, they know where to find more when I leave a link to my journal.
- So a Reminder: Authors are the exception to the no sign in rule, if you are posting a fill you are totally allowed to do it signed in. I do encourage Anon, but I totally understand it if you chose Sign In (where there will be no IP logging).
- If you have prompted or replied to a fill while signed in, I thank you kindly for remembering to delete it and repost it as anon, but due to the logging thing, if you don't want me to know your IP, wait a bit and change the wordings.

How IPs could be problematic:

Unless you have a really crappy provider, they shouldn't give out your account information just because someone phone them up with your IP Address, the presence of your IP Address alone will not dox you online, what will dox you online is:

You revealing your own information online, if you have posted your full name, and or picture, and/or highschool, workplace, information that could narrow you down, if you have done that from your home computer, your usual IP Address, then you need to remember that your usual IP address now have a biography online. For example, if you were a Wikipedia contributer who started out anon so your IP address is up there, and then you made a bio with your name on it, because Wikipedia is something to be proud of right? AND THEN you also exposed your IP address publicly at the Fetish Fuel Wiki, this is not good.


This is why you should never post your IRL id details with your regular IP Address, okay, if you reading this, and you haven't done it (check by googling your address, oh, speaking of google, don't google your full name and work place and then freaky stuff because google keeps a record of Things Googled By The Same Address, you can however, combat this by also googling the full name and work place of as many people as you know! Likewise, me being a writer explain away why I was googling about where to dispose of a body, Mr./Mrs.Officer Sir!) If your ID doesn't come up, it shouldn't be a problem that your IP is here, especially since only I, [livejournal.com profile] gsyh, can see it. In the future I might pass this account to someone else, but I promise you it won't be willy nelly, and it'll be several years down where your addresses will probably have changed right?



If you don't want your IP address attached to your prompt/fill however, you could comment HERE (Please use SUBJECT HEADING, pairing and kink), and I will repost it to the appropriate meme/thread.


In the LINKED Post:
Signed Comments: Not Logged
Signed Comments: Not Screened
Anon Comments: Screened
Anon Comments: Not Logged

http://gsyh.livejournal.com/563938.html
(Mod Note: Humbug! LJ doesn't let you turn off IP logging for just one post, so I'm using the above LJ until I can remember the password for an RPG account, therefore, don't bookmark that, bookmark this.)


RetroErase: If you want your IP Address detached from your prompt, locate it again, and remember to use Subject Heading "Delete My Address", and I'll delete it and repost it from MY Address, this would erase your address and obscure my prompts among yours, bwhahahaha. Reply Anon of course.


Reminder: as of this posting, KM5 is sleeping, posting your prompts later, and you can fill it now, but hey, we'll still be here in a week. Go here:



2011-12-06 11:28 pm
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CM_Kink temporary closed for the holidays

Special Announcement Dec 7th, 2011

Happy Holidays everyone. CM Kink Meme 5 shall be temporary closed for the holiday this week, please direct your kinky needs of the week towards CM Kink Meme 6 hosted by ansera:


one week, go!:

2011-10-31 10:49 am
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Criminal MInds Kink Meme FIlls Post 5B Vanilla Safe Space

This is the Fills post for the Safe Space post (nothing with violence or consent issues please)

Criminal Minds Kink Meme 5 B Vanilla Safe Space

Pinboard Account (thank you [livejournal.com profile] littledrop)

Google:
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2011-10-31 10:49 am
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Criminal MInds Kink Meme FIlls Post 5A Everything Goes

Post your fills link here, please remember the warnings.

Criminal Minds Kink Meme 5 A Everything Goes

Pinboard Account (thank you [livejournal.com profile] littledrop)

Google:
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2011-10-26 12:03 am
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Kink Meme 5 B - 'Vanilla' Safe Space

This is the portion of the kink meme that aims to be a safe space for kinky people who like foodsex or foot fetish or like sexual stuff outside of the 'norm', or heck, just want to participate in a meme that that is all about instant porn, and yet, find the subject of violence and consent issues triggering.

I know there is a difference between actual violence and 'play' violence, but for the purpose of this safe space, please don't even have non-con fantasy roleplaying request in THIS post. Thank you.

If you want the Everything Goes Post, it's here: Kink Meme 5 A - Everything Goes, in which /Everything/ goes, from the stuff that is posted here in this Safe Space, to stuff that will NOT be in this space, I encourage vanilla prompters and repliers to post in BOTH posts, thank you.

Golden Rule of CM Kink Meme 5: That y'all be excellent to each other
- No matter how silly or squicky a kink is, for example...people who find not bathing sexually attractive? If it doesn't trigger anyone's traumatic memory of abuse, it's alright here.
- Character Bashing: if you are going to make character C into Ron the Death Eater as a side to A/B, please warn ahead of the fic so that C fans may skip it. Seeing as this is the Vanilla prompt, C being /character/ bashed by being Ron the Cheater is fine, but C being Ron the Wife Beater or C being Ron the Beaten / Jerkass Victim (of a violent crime) is NOT okay. No violence!
- If you have any issues or questions, see Questions and Discussion post
- Prompters and Seconders: Keep it Anonymous! Anon is preferably, signing it is okay if you are posting fics, please only sign in if you are posting a reply.

Formatting: I recommend that you list your pairings twice to ease search. There is a convention in some fandom, where instead of listing "A/B" to means that this pairing involves a and b, it lists AB and BA to indicate who is 'on top' during a sex scene. Some people don't care, some people do. If you don't, just list it as "A/B", if it's D/s, list it as AB or BA depending on who is 'on top' during the scene in question.

For ease of search, especially for the people getting this in their email, totally make your subject header informative (there is no particular order, just include pairing and kink (which could include who is on top):

"A/B, AB, pegging"

"A/B/C, ABC CBA, the answer to a shipwar is threesome!"

"A/B, BA, B feeds A ice cream from on top of A's desk"

"A/B, AB, A surprises B in the shower"

"A/B, AB, shower surprise"

"A/B, BA, h/c post break with C(bashing!)"

"A/B/C, AB, CB, h/c bondage, frottage, fingering, and double penetration - B has a long and stressful day and A and C takes care of him/her"


Fills post Vanilla Safe Space


...and finally, following ansera's fine tradition, here's a brief PublicServiceAnnoucement:
InRealLife: Please remember to practice Safe Sane Consensual etc etc Questions and Discussion post
...and if you missed Sexual Health or need more brush up, Go Ask Alice

Last Reminder: This is the Safe Space Post, no violence, no consent issues.


BBs, we have a new home:

Criminal Kink Meme VII

...our sandbox is now at Dreamwidth, because Subject Headings Subject Headings! Signing up for a DW account took me less than a minute, they just ask for a birthdate and email, you don't even need to give them a name.

7A - Everything Goes
from Non-Violent Safe Sane Consensual to Dangerous Insane Nonconsenual.

For members of our community who are trauma survivors and find violence and/or consent issues triggering, please consider the option of this: 7B - Safe Space
2011-10-26 12:03 am
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Anonymous Kink Meme 5 A - Everything Goes Post

Previous Kink Memes:
Criminal Minds Kink Meme #1
Criminal Minds Kink Meme #2
Criminal Minds Kink Meme #3
Criminal Minds Kink Meme #4

In this post, Everything Goes, from mutually respectful lovemaking, to graphic non-con. If violence and consent issues make you uncomfortable, please go to 5B Safe Space, which will be like the internet with SafeSearch on. To all users: post whatever you want in this post, but don't crosspost anything to Safe Space unless you are sure there are no violence or consent issues.

Golden Rule of CM Kink Meme 5: That y'all be excellent to each other, this means:
1. No Your Kink Is Not Alright memes, don't like, don't read, scroll scroll scroll.
2. Use Warnings: There is labelling to let people find their kink, and then there is warning for common triggers such as Rape, Incest (plz specify if it's Same Generation or Cross Generation, as there are people who are cool with twincest but squicked by Woody Allen and his adopted daughter), Death, Snuff, Torture, and Relationship Abuse. Please use this in the subject header or at the very beginning of your comment so that people can easily scroll over it. I know this is the Everything Goes Post, but many people, including me, have kinks that includes some common triggers while being trigger by Other Triggers. (ETA: Please also warn for RealPersonFiction at the very beginning, and use a huge disclaimer too, thank you.)
3. Character Bashing: Everything Goes Here, but if you are going to make character C into Ron the Death Eater as a side to A/B, please warn ahead of the fic so that C fans may skip it.
- If you have any issues or questions, see Questions and Discussion post
4. Prompters and Seconders: Keep it Anonymous! Anon is preferably, signing it is okay if you are posting fics, please only sign in if you are posting a reply.

Formatting: I recommend that you list your pairings twice to ease search. There is a convention in some fandom, where instead of listing "A/B" to means that this pairing involves a and b, it lists AB and BA to indicate who is 'on top' during a sex scene. Some people don't care, some people do. If you don't, just list it as "A/B", if it's D/s, list it as AB or BA depending on who is 'on top' during the scene in question.

For ease of search, especially for the people getting this in their email, totally make your subject header informative (there is no particular order, just include pairing and kink (which could include who is on top)::

"A/B, BA, B helps A act out a non-con fantasy"

"Unsubs/A, UnsubsA is kidnapped, non-con, taunting phonecalls."

"A/B, BA, A is drunk and B takes advantage."

"A/C, CA, A is in an abusive relationship with C, sex in which A is both aroused but afraid please."

"A/B, BA, roleplaying, bondage, necktie"

"A/B, AB, pegging"

"A/B/C, ABC CBA, the answer to a shipwar is threesome!"

"A/B, BA, B feeds A ice cream from on top of A's desk"

"A/B, AB, A surprises B in the shower"

"A/B, AB, shower surprise"

"A/B, BA, h/c post break with C(bashing!)"

"A/B/C, AB, CB, h/c bondage, frottage, fingering, and double penetration - B has a long and stressful day and A and C takes care of him/her"

(If you notice the red font, those would be an example of what you shouldn't crosspost to Safe Space.)

Have fun, let's break this meme in!

ETA: List of Kinks

Formatting: "I recommend" means it's optional, but I highly recommend you use formatting, and here's why, and hello, we show up on Google now!


Pinboard Account (thank you [livejournal.com profile] littledrop)
Search the Meme, plug in:
"site:http://cm-kink.livejournal.com/ Your Kink"

For example:
"site:cm-kink.livejournal.com "Garcia/Morgan" will get you Garcia/Morgan and Morgan/Garcia (just like how searching for James Auagavaqwe will also get you Jimmy Auagavaqwe because google reads that)

"site:http://cm-kik.livejournal.com GarciaMorgan" With quotes around "GarciaMorgan" will specifically yield you GarciaMorgan, which signifies that she's the more dommy one in this fic.

So when listing contents of pairing, especially in threesomes* go by ABC, A/B/C (Haley/Hotch/Reid), but narrowing it down, the SECOND time you list it, minus the /, it means who is on top, which is good news for people searching for "ReidHotch" or "HotchReid" (you have to use "AB" for google to filter out the A/B)
*because google isn't reading variation in threesome order as well as it does in Jimmy is also James. "A/B/C" might miss you out on "C/B/A" hits.

If this confuse you: it's optional, just post your prompt, but if it's harder to find, it's harder to answer. Reply Anons who gets Boolean - if you are replying to a prompt or fic in which the thread does not have the keywords to make it show up on Google, add it in! Thank you,

Fills Post 5A Everything Goes


...and finally, following ansera's fine tradition, here's a brief PublicServiceAnnoucement:
InRealLife: Please remember to practice Safe Sane Consensual: Whenever you do someone, you must confirm the presence of affirmative consent, if it's anything less then an explicit verbal yes, please please please make sure that the moaning is in pleasure, etc etc. It's not going to kill the mood if you affirm consent by huskily asking your partner "What would you like me to do to you now?" Additionally, don't spring forced play on someone without talking about it first, remember, a mood ruined by talking about it NOW can be more easily repaired than Accidental Assault! Safewords don't work when someone is gagged, etc etc Questions and Discussion post
...and if you missed Sexual Health or need more brush up, Go Ask Alice

Reminders: Keep it anon. The only /allowances/ are for people posting fics and authors replying to comments, and even then, I strongly encourage Anons. For a lot of people, there is much less inhibition to being kinky if you don't recognize anyone else here...


On Character Bashing and/or Characters as Rapists Prompts: Okay peeps, I'm sure I'm not the only one (though it certainly isn't for everyone) who enjoy Villain/Hero slash, like Master/Doctor(Who?) because it's hot. ...and goody two shoes Willow Rosenberg is frequently written as evil rapist Vamp!Willow, by people who think it's hot. With that in mind:
a) If you see your beloved Knight of a Character requested or written as a rapist here - let's just assume that OP requested it because they think the knight in question is hotter when evil, so it's not character bashing.
b) Character Bashing: If you prompter, have indeed requested the Knight to be Ebil not because you think the Knight is hot, but because you just need a villain, especially to set up your True Love pairing, PLEASE PLEASE, Warn for character bashing, I don't care how minor the character is, Haley, Will, Jack, Agent Anderson, warn plz (like, dude, I have been in fandoms where I have participated in character bashing - in my own LJ or at the designated comm, it's like how get my angry yelling done before I spend time with the people I love, wise is wise, NO FIGHTING!).
---- So for the love of god, in prompts where there is character bashing, or where a character is portrayed as a rapist (UNLESS the character is an Unsub), please don't say things like, "in my head, that's canon", this is not the place fo rit.
----- If you come across something like that, DO NOT REPLY, contact me and I'll delete it.



BBs, we have a new home:

Criminal Kink Meme VII

...our sandbox is now at Dreamwidth, because Subject Headings Subject Headings! Signing up for a DW account took me less than a minute, they just ask for a birthdate and email, you don't even need to give them a name.

7A - Everything Goes
from Non-Violent Safe Sane Consensual to Dangerous Insane Nonconsenual.

For members of our community who are trauma survivors and find violence and/or consent issues triggering, please consider the option of this: 7B - Safe Space
2011-10-26 12:01 am
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Questions and Discussion Post for the Criminal Minds Kink Meme

What it said, questions? Anything on kinks you just want to throw out here? lol?


ETA:
...and finally, following ansera's fine tradition, here's a brief PublicServiceAnnoucement:
InRealLife: Please remember to practice Safe Sane Consensual: Whenever you do someone, you must confirm the presence of affirmative consent, if it's anything less then an explicit verbal yes, please please please make sure that the moaning is in pleasure, etc etc. It's not going to kill the mood if you affirm consent by huskily asking your partner "What would you like me to do to you now?" Additionally, don't spring forced play on someone without talking about it first, remember, a mood ruined by talking about it NOW can be more easily repaired than Accidental Assault! Safewords don't work when someone is gagged, etc etc

...and if you missed Sexual Health or need more brush up, Go Ask Alice