I have to agree. We hardly have ANY participants, both fillers and prompters. I'm actually quite disappointed in this particular Kinkmeme... maybe it's just lack of promotion.. i'm not sure but it still makes me sad.
There is quite a bit of grey areas between "vanilla" and "everything goes" The no violence thing I get, but there's a lot of other things that I'm not sure where to post. What's "vanilla" is usually a matter of opinion, I think vanilla is just two people (homosexual or heterosexual) and not much else.. lots of fluff, whereas some people think threesomes and hot wax are vanilla. It really depends on your own personal kink in real life and where other kinks fall on the spectrum. Like someone who is into S&M reguarlay... their view of "vanilla" is going to be a bit different than someone who has, for example, only has been with one or two people and the "kinkiest" they've done is maybe some really bad dirty talk.
Anyways my point is that if there's going to be this delineation between the two at least have a very clearly compiled kinks list of what is allowed on the "vanilla" post. "Everything goes" is self-explanatory but the vanilla post is where I think things are going haywire.
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Date: 2011-10-31 03:31 pm (UTC)There is quite a bit of grey areas between "vanilla" and "everything goes" The no violence thing I get, but there's a lot of other things that I'm not sure where to post. What's "vanilla" is usually a matter of opinion, I think vanilla is just two people (homosexual or heterosexual) and not much else.. lots of fluff, whereas some people think threesomes and hot wax are vanilla. It really depends on your own personal kink in real life and where other kinks fall on the spectrum. Like someone who is into S&M reguarlay... their view of "vanilla" is going to be a bit different than someone who has, for example, only has been with one or two people and the "kinkiest" they've done is maybe some really bad dirty talk.
Anyways my point is that if there's going to be this delineation between the two at least have a very clearly compiled kinks list of what is allowed on the "vanilla" post. "Everything goes" is self-explanatory but the vanilla post is where I think things are going haywire.